A New Time For Compassion

{Cathedrale St-Lazare, Autun}
“There are times to cultivate and create, when you nurture your world and give birth to new ideas and ventures. There are times of flourishing and abundance, when life feels in full bloom, energized and expanding. And there are times of fruition, when things come to an end. They have reached their climax and must be harvested before they begin to fade. And finally of course, there are times that are cold, and cutting and empty, times when the spring of new beginnings seems like a distant dream. Those rhythms in life are natural events. They weave into one another as day follows night, bringing, not messages of hope and fear, but messages of how things are.” ~ Chogyam Trungpa

New Moons are always times for new beginnings and for fresh starts. They signify something that is about to take place in a new cycle of your life. As all things in nature affect each other so does the moon’s energy affect its closest neighbor: The Earth Terra. As inhabitants of this planet, as well as other life here, we are likewise affected by the shifts of the tides and the energetic fields that emanate, not to mention gravitational pulls and etc. etc. Quantum physics aside, this is a time for you to look at your life and find what needs “freshening.”

As in keeping with my 101 Things to complete before the year is up, my third new moon card is the Three of Hearts, more known as cups. This signifies what I must refreshen and it is a key card. Threes usually are the product of some sort of creation, two transmorphs into a third, two becomes three, procreation, and you get the idea. This card signifies a celebration, a fruition, and a time for utter joy. Not too shaby! I could use some happy news right about now. This celebration of something new, could quite possibly relate to my new relationship, since we are indeed (and unrelated to the card in any way) having a party, a cosmopolitan party at that! So all I can say is “!!FIESTAMOS!!”

Now more on the New Moon in particular, it begins at 12:15 EST and will be in the constellation Pisces. Pisces is a wonderful time! It is a space of time we should look into our dreams, into balance and into compassion. Here is a list of some varying correspondences:

1. Take a leap of faith—believe in something that you always wanted to believe in, but were too afraid to put your trust in;

2. Accept imperfections in yourself and in others as a different kind of “perfection”;
3. Start a creative, imaginative project;
4. Consciously put aside time for peaceful, rejuvenating activities—these can include yoga and meditation, but can be as simple as recognizing your need for “down time” on a regular basis;
5. Practice putting yourself into others’ shoes, and let some things go (such as judgments, annoyances, and the like);
6. Revitalize yourself through experiences that require imagination, compassion, or that simply represent a “break” from the routine;
7. Connect or re-connect with a lover on a romantic level;

8. Share a dream.

What I like the most about this is a revitalization of self and of compassion, which I think more people should do everyday, not merely on occasions of lunar locale. Sure it is a reason, and prompts us to do so, however there is no higher form of humanity than examples of human compassion in a world controlled by insecure egomaniacs, with low self-esteem and a happy trigger finger. I think we should do more, and teach more about compassion and about equality and in doing so at least attempt to make a better world, however small… 

Campest Songs EVER!

“With a bit of rock music, everything is fine; you’re in the mood for a dance; and when you get a chance…” ~ Abba.

 In honour last month of Sydney, AU’s GLBT Mardi Gras, gays and breeders alike voted on the world’s gayest songs. They came up with a top 50, I say why not a TOP 100?! There are by far enough of them. At any rate, I found a few to be some of my personal favourites, and I even have heard breeders enjoy them as well (even as wedding songs!) So here is the list descending from 50 down to the TOP 1 Gayest Song in the WORLD. Courteously from SameSame here are the Campest classics of all time! Sing with me now!

50. Elton John and George Michael “Don’t Let The Sun Go Down On Me”
49. Dead or Alive “You Spin Me (Like A Record)”
48. Pet Shop Boys “New York City Boy”
47. Diana Ross “Chain Reaction”
46. Deborah Harry “I Want That Man”
45. Cher “Strong Enough”
44. RuPaul “Supermodel (You Better Work)”
43. KD Lang “Constant Craving”
42. Culture Club “Do You Really Want To Hurt Me”
41. Chaka Kham “I’m Every Woman”
40. Wham “Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go”
39. Paul Lekakis “Boom Boom (Let’s Go Back To My Room)
38. Kym Mazelle “Young Hearts Run Free”
37. George Michael “Outside”
36. Donna Summer “I Feel Love”
35. Dannii Minogue “This Is It”
34. Belinda Carlisle “Summer Rain”
33. Peter Allen “I Go To Rio”
32. Sylvester “You Make Me Feel Mighty Real”
31. Heather Small “Proud”
30. CeCe Peniston “Finally”
29. Madonna “Express Yourself”
28. Cyndi Lauper “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun”
27. Charlene “I’ve Never Been To Me”
26. Tim Curry “Sweet Transvestite”
25. Barry Manilow “Copacabana”
24. Barbara Streisand and Donna Summer “No More Tears”
23. Whitney Houston “I Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me)”
22. Sister Sledge “We Are Family”
21. Queen “I Want To Break Free”
20. Dolly Parton “9 to 5”
19. Coming Out Crew “Free, Gay and Happy”
18. Village People “In the Navy”
17. Frankie Goes To Hollywood “Relax”
16. Village People “Macho Man”
15. Judy Garland “Over The Rainbow”
14. Bronski Beat “Smalltown Boy”
13. Diana Ross “I’m Coming Out”
12. Cher“Believe”
11. Gloria Gaynor “I Am What I Am”
10. Alicia Bridges “I Love The Nightlife”
9. Madonna “Vogue”
8. Olivia Netwon-John “Xanadu”
7. Kylie Minogue “Better The Devil You Know”
6. Pet Shop Boys “Go West”
5. Kylie Minogue “Your Disco Needs You”
4. The Weathergirls “It’s Raining Men”
3. Gloria Gaynor “I Will Survive”
2. Village People “YMCA”
1. ABBA “Dancing Queen”

Project Runway’s ‘Fierce’ New Winner

“Elisa, she reminds me of a rain goddess woman. She’s like, all spiritual and in the himalayan mountains, she’s a little strange.” ~Christian Siriano
{Christian Siriano from junk-mag.com}

Well it is officially and publicly known: Christian Siriano won project Runway Season 4. Of course, it has been known by several of America’s finest and close relatives since after January’s Fashion Week decision, tucked away in the catacombs of Parson’s, we ALL know now. From the beginning Christian was a bit of a farce, with his egotistical attitude, but it gave him edge and that raw self-confidence gave him what he needed to win and succeed. Of course things would be different had he been older, but none the less he is a lucky and fierce betch! Hello! He’s going to be doing lunch now with Posh Beckham now, since she made it quite clear that he’d be designing for her in the future. In her words, his line was all about her and she even said it was “Majour!” and his work even made her smile! All in all, I wish Christian the best and I honestly have nothing else to say, because I cannot wait to see what they come out with next. I just miss Austin and Jay far too much….please bring them back! Perhaps in the future there will be a show down with all past winners?! Now that would be “FIERCE!”

1. Season One WINNER: Jay McCarroll
2. Season TWO Winner: Chloe Dao
3. Season Three WINNER: Jeffrey Sebelia

 

Don’t Jinx This Love?

{Gay Kiss by Raphael Perez}
“Who would give a law to lovers?  Love is unto itself a higher law.”  ~Boethius, The Consolation of Philosophy, A.D. 524

 Time is so relative, it seems to move on the wind when your mind is elsewhere and thinking about dreamlandish things. Honestly I have never before felt the way I do now. The cooincidences are far stretching to not mean anything. There are so many similiarities between us, especially right down to the very things we own! Here are the similars:

A golden tassle on the doorknob
An African mask statue
Seashore paraphenalia
Shipping net
Happily Ever After 1993 the movie (I thought no one else had ever even HEARD of this movie)
An urn vase that is the same make yet instead of red it’s blue
An antique pepsi can airplane (A few days before I saw one in a movie and got transfixed like it was familiar)
A fondness for food and cooking
Lots of alike musics
A flare for British slang
etc. etc.

But at any rate, he just makes me feel in a way that is just undescribable. Sure we will have things that will be defining and will hinder us, but I am willing to do it even though I know that there will be struggles. You ever hear of how couples are so much alike yet so different? Well, he is my yang to my yin! To put it bluntly, and in the words of this and last century’s most controvercial diva:

“I’ve waited all my life for you; My favourite kiss; Your perfect skin; Your perfect smile. Waking up and you’re next to me; Wrap me up in your arms and back to sleep; (Lay my head on your chest and drift away
Dream of you and I’m almost half awake); The palest [blue] I’ve ever seen; The colour of your eyes; You’ve taken me so far away; One look and you stop time. Fell in love with you and; Everything that you are; Nothing I can do I’m really; Crazy about you; When you’re next to me; It’s just like heaven on earth; You’re heaven; You’re heaven on earth.” ~The Brit.